Today, I looked around the room; I wondered where we all are. I wondered if we were all empty of the past yet completely full of today to be slowly poured out over the future. The Thanksgiving Holiday of 2012 just over and now is the new beginning of separate lives. Our youngest daughter moving in with our oldest daughter to search out a career. The oldest being the original best example for the transition from child to adult, always putting God first while the quest for the individual self is an ongoing process. Our son in search of the Son is becoming the one to lean on, the one to set the bar for black men in general, single, with no offspring mastering his field of education and teaching youth to reach for the epitome of success and attain the very possible best. The middle child a strong black woman regulating the system while married to a man whose strength, honor and pride are embodied in integrity and love for his family and life. My marriage is?